Expectations

 " इंसान  कभी इंसान को धोखा नहीं देता ,
      धोखा दे जाती है उसकी उमीदे 
          जो वो दुसरो से रखता है." 

 This is a fact that, we got hurt when we do expectations from others. And the person we have expectations with, can't make it.

So the thing is obvious if we don't keep expectations from a person or we work on it, we also don't get hurt whatever the result came.

And here is a 'but' that screams we can't do this on our own (to not keeping expectations with whom we have a bond with).

We expect from a person when we trust him/her.
But the point is-
From where the trust comes? Why?

It comes with the person, maybe he/she is trustworthy that we even think that the person is last-longer in our life.

When we love someone, our trust(with the person) gets stronger with time that results in the expectations which goes higher also. Both are very dependent processes.

Actually the problem is not with what we expect from whom, in what sense. The root of the problem is the selection of right person, because a wrong person came with great destruction and apocalypse in our life.

Choose wisely, give some time to him/her and take some time for you because this selection can make your life or can create an apocalypse to you.

If the person is right for us then our expectations doesn't go in vain. Just look at his/her efforts that what he/she is going through to make us happy, to do things in the way we wants.

You just have to control your too much expecting from the peoples that doesn't even exist in your life. Trust me you will be awesome with zero expectations from anyone.

In the last, the right person(the your person) will always gives his/her 100% efforts to make your bond stronger. "Right things comes with the Right person".

Don't look at the result, it isn't in our hands. Efforts are the only we can make to satisfy our expectations. That's it!